In a recent tweet, Akothee has stirred online conversation once again with her bold views on modern relationships this time advocating for couples to date for at least four years while living apart from each other before making any major commitments.
On her Facebook page, Akothee said she believes long courtships help partners understand each other’s patterns, behavior, and values before getting into life-changing decisions like pregnancy or living together.
“I am beginning to think that couples should date for four years, living separately, until they understand each other’s patterns and behaviors. No rush into pregnancy. You might end up with someone who was meant to be just a one-night stand,
The comments went viral, eliciting different reactions on social media. While some fans agreed wholeheartedly, noting that her advice reflects the real challenges facing many young couples who rush into relationships without really knowing their partners, others insisted that every relationship is different and love and compatibility just do not fall within fixed timelines.
