Tanasha Donna has shared a compelling message with women, urging them to break free from the pressures of societal expectations that often encourage them to remain in toxic relationships. The singer and mother of one emphasized that not all men should be viewed through a negative lens, noting that many good men go unnoticed because the narrative is often dominated by the toxic and narcissistic behaviors of others.
Speaking openly, Tanasha highlighted the importance of recognizing manipulative behavior and learning to distinguish between real love and unhealthy attachment. She shared her thoughts on the issue, saying, “We, as women, often carry the emotional weight of toxic relationships. Some men thrive on creating chaos and pushing you to act in ways that aren’t in your character—that’s simply how they operate.”
Tanasha pointed out that narcissistic individuals feed off of drama and disruption, explaining that such people can’t sustain healthy, peaceful relationships. “They want you to believe their chaos is a sign of love, but in reality, they don’t love you. They just need to keep you in turmoil,” she said. Her message was clear: staying in these kinds of relationships isn’t an act of love, but rather one of manipulation.
She went on to explain why narcissists stay in relationships despite lacking genuine affection. “You’re either serving a role in their life, or they know you’re the only one who will tolerate their behavior. They stay because they know you’ll always be there, regardless of what they put you through,” Tanasha said.
The artist also challenged traditional mindsets surrounding love and relationships, calling for a shift in how future generations approach these issues. “We need to teach our daughters, sons, and everyone in between that what we’ve been taught to accept isn’t love,” she urged.
Tanasha made a powerful statement about cultural norms, particularly in many African communities, where women are often expected to endure years of disrespect and emotional abuse. “Our elders often told us to stick around, saying all men are the same. But that couldn’t be further from the truth,” she reflected. “There are many wonderful, loving men out there, but societal norms have allowed narcissistic individuals to overshadow the good ones.”
In her closing thoughts, Tanasha emphasized that the behaviors she spoke of are a form of manipulation and abuse, even if they seem tolerable when viewed through a lens of idealism or “rose-colored glasses.” She called for women to recognize their worth and value themselves enough to walk away from toxic relationships, not just for their own happiness but for the future well-being of the generations to come.
