Kenyan music star and businesswoman Esther Akoth Kokeyo, popularly known as Akothee, has once again set social media buzzing after candidly opening up about the collapse of her much-publicised marriage just weeks after a glamorous wedding that captivated the nation.
In a raw and unapologetic post, Akothee joked that hers was a case of “big wedding, small marriage,” humorously crowning herself the “certified chief officer of failed marriages.” But beneath the laughter emojis was a deeply personal explanation that struck a chord with many fans.
Akothee revealed that while she believed her partner was genuine, she later discovered crucial truths that had not been disclosed to her before marriage. According to her, the lack of honesty made it impossible to continue with the union, as she felt betrayed and emotionally drained.
She disclosed that her decision to walk away was influenced by what she described as undisclosed mental health challenges on the part of her husband, stating that she later learned he had been living with bipolar disorder, information she says was not shared with her before the wedding. Akothee explained that the resulting emotional outbursts became overwhelming, leaving her constantly trying to “pick herself up” and ultimately forcing her to prioritise her own wellbeing.
Akothee made it clear that public opinion would not intimidate her. She firmly stated that she would not tolerate abuse emotional or otherwise adding that even societal pressure or family disappointment would not force her to remain in a situation she felt was damaging.